How can I meet a girl when i dont drink?
Question by B jizzle: How can I meet a girl when i dont drink?
I am 23 and i am having trouble meeting girls. I dont drink so i really dont go to the bar. then when i do meet a girl i really dont know what to say to them. i like go blank and there is an award silence in the middle of conversation. i guess my main problem is that i chicken out and dont say anything because i dont know what to say. any suggestions?
Best answer:
Answer by prandicle
Drinking can’t be the only thing that’s holding you back from meeting girls. I’m a student and don’t really drink but I still meet boys and all my friends are massive drinkers but it’s never a problem. If that’s the issue then go to bars with friends but just don’t drink alcohol. Simple. If you’re asked by a girl what you’re drinking and it’s just a coke and you’re a bit embarrassed or something (not that you should be) say it’s vodka and coke or something. Get red bull (energy drink) and then maybe you’ll get a bit hyped up instead which might help you talk to girls.
When you talk to a girl try to engage with what she wants to talk about because girls love to talk about themselves and the chances are she’ll say something that interests you as well and chat about that.
Possible topics include: job, university/college, hometown, music, films, family etc. Easy things. Don’t get bogged down in some religious argument or anything too serious. The getting to know each other is the best bit so relax and enjoy it. And I bet that actually if you tell her honestly that you don’t drink they might prefer it.
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its ok that you dont drink– i say good on ya!… i also dont drink and find it hard to meet guys as well because they;re all into getting druk and watsiong money on boos and thats reallu not my thing..
yoiu need to work up your confidence.. also, maybe try nmeeting them through friends, or get involved in some activities in your local area…